Kinky Wedding

秘密的婚禮

也想要，有一場別開生面的kinky婚禮，有人願意幫忙嗎？

Spice me up

週末夜裡，你準備好要為自己加點香料了嗎？

關於主人這個角色

A Dominant has to know his submissive more than anyone ever did. 

He has to understand her thoughts , dreams and desires. 

He got to Be inside every single inch of her body and soul, 

To know what she want from just a look, to understand her when her words can't help her, 

to see her pain and problems even when she ferociously hiding them, 

to see beyond his anger when she displease him, 

to trust her when she doesn't trust herself. 

He will be the one there staying silent when she doesn't want to talk, 

He will be the one listening to her especially with the silly subjects, 

He will be the one smiling proudly even when she try and fail, 

He will be the one refusing to give up when she does, 

He will be the one fighting her frustration till he know what bother her, 

He will be the one that doesn't get bored from teaching her the same thing over and over, 

He will be the one planning a future with her not just one night stand, 

he will be the one standing there beside her no matter the situation and 

even if he doesn't know how to solve it yet. 

it take a lot of work and a lot of hard times to be a Good Dominant for your submissive 

but she is worth it. 

~Tarq~

作為支配者

他必須比任何人都瞭解他的奴

瞭解她的每個念頭，夢想與慾望

深入她的每寸肌膚與靈魂之中

即使是當她無法言語之時，僅要一瞥，便能知道她的渴望

看穿她的疼痛與煩惱即使當她試圖隱藏

當她惹他生氣時，他仍能自持不讓氣憤遮掩他的判斷力

他總能相信她，即使當她都不相信自己

當她不想說話時，他會靜靜在她身邊

他傾聽她的念頭，即使有些是摸不著邊際的蠢話

他會對她投以驕傲的笑容，即使她嘗試卻失敗了

他會在她感到沮喪時不斷支持她直到他了解困擾她真正的因素

他會做那個即使一遍一遍重複教她也不會放棄的老師

他會計劃他們兩人的未來，而不是只看現在

他會在她身邊陪她面對所有困境即使他還不知該如何解困

經營這一切為你的奴成為一個好的支配者需要投入許多的時間與努力，

但她值得。

Hot Stuff 玩薑。廚房裡的小遊戲

Had some fun with food!

A good sized piece of ginger, washed and peeled.

Then carved into a mini-cock ready for slave and hidden away in the fridge.

Tie her up, blindfold her and lightly tease her body.

Once she's ready and moist,

the cold tip of the ginger cock lightly brushed across her pussy makes her jump.

The little squeal and shock subsiding,

with a little more teasing the ginger has warmed and slips inside her easily.

With her little white panties to keep it place,

she gets to feel the spicy heat spread from within.

Reverse Cuckold

In my last post I talked about cuckolding, but seeing as how we live in an equal and democratic society it seems strange that cuckolding only works one way.  Why cant it be reversed?  I think it can!

Reverse cuckold is just that!  The roles are gender swapped, so you have...

The other woman = the filly

The husband = the cuckolder or the hotgroom

The wife = the cuckold

I've been creative with the names, 

a filly is a young female horse - to counter the mans role of a bull (filly is also English slang for a spicy woman)

the cuckolder is a male version of cuckoldress,

hotgroom sounds better than hothusband - male version of hotwife.

The SM dynamics between the roles can be the same as with a normal cuckold relationship as can the sexual involvement of the different people, it just depends on what each person wants!

Cuckold...or 戴绿帽子

Yes I know, the whole green hat thing in Chinese culture is generally a bad thing.  But in western culture there has developed a whole SM sub-culture of cuckolding, and it's not a bad thing when it's done with consent!

The basic act of cuckolding for those who don't know is basically having a wife who adulterous relationships with men other than her husband.  The historical context of this is seen as a bad thing culturally, and that attitude is still around with the green hat of Chinese culture.
But when the act of cuckolding is done with consent, it becomes an interesting SM activity!  With three parties involved in the basic play, the husband, the wife, and the other man.
The husband becomes 'the cuckold', a submissive role to the other two people involved, the role of the cuckold can vary in how much they participate, sometimes the cuckold can be passive in the play letting the other people play together without being involved (sometimes not even being present), all the way to being an active role in the play by assisting the other two play (sometimes cleaning them with his tongue after they are finished for example), it all depends on the likes and dislikes of those playing!
The second role is of the wife, she becomes 'the cuckoldress, queen, or sometimes hotwife'.  The cuckoldress takes a dominant role over her husband and plays with the third person...
The third person is the other man, he is called 'the bull'!  The relationship between the cuckoldress and the bull can vary a lot, it can range from a simple one-night-stand (not recommended) all the way up to what is basically a live-in-boyfriend who replaces the husband in the marital bed.  The relationship between the cuckoldress and the bull can also have varying SM dynamics, they can both be dominant towards the cuckold, the bull can be dominant to the cuckold but sub to the cuckoldress, or the bull can dominate both the cuckold and cuckoldress.  From personal experience the last is more common, the bull dominates the cuckoldress and the cuckold, while the cuckoldress dominates the cuckold but is submissive to the bull.

Whatever your perversion, it's been going on for hundreds of years...so there's got to be something fun about it! ;)

You, belong to me

Such a nice idea, I really like the idea...

the only problem is I don't want to destroy my toy by making holes in her.

Maybe this can do the job instead?