24 May 2011
21 May 2011
20 May 2011
19 May 2011
17 May 2011
A new design for a Black Wedding.
A BDSM Wedding dress, the bottom is a long black dress with a short 'train' (that's the bit that drags on the floor behind the dress) with a high slit up the side to reveal the leg. The top is a specially made bodice/corset, that has a shibari rope pattern on it, the rope pattern is part of the dress and is used to make the shape of the bodice as it covers the breasts (alternatively, the bodice could be cut below the breasts and the rope design used to go around the breasts like in real shibari). The rope design then loops around the back of the neck to support the dress on the body. The back of the dress has a simple corset lace up design.
Anyone want one?
13 May 2011
The men who read this will probably understand this better than the women, but you girls might find it funny.
It's a commentary on what torture can be, I mean, in an SM relationship, the Dom plays with the Sub in various ways as an exercise of power over the Sub. But is this always the case?
Now most, not all, but most of the time SM play has a level of sexual gratification. It is a sexual fetish after all! So the playing that is done between the Dom and the Sub is a form of sexual pleasure.
But what happens when the Sub gains pleasure from the play and the Dom gains pain from the play?
My example is this, I can play with my toy, and we both enjoy it. But Toy is female, and I am male, so there are some times when there can be sexual gratification and other times none. For Toy, this is not so much of a problem due to the natural biology.
But for me.......ouch! Blue Balls. Testicles that get too full from all the playing, and can't be emptied properly until Toy can play properly again. So who's the Dom and who's the Sub now??
Toy will have to hurry up and finish her work from http://bdsmtaisirsub.blogspot.com/2011/04/blog-post_27.html
then there will be a substitute Toy to use lol.
12 May 2011
The New Collar and Lead.
It's been a while since I posted any leather work. But I have some designs I have been working on, this is the first one.
A new style of collar, with this design I wanted to create a collar that had a more feminine feel. The first collar design I made had a very utility style design with many places to attach restraints. This new design has only the one ring to attach a lead or restraints to. The simpler design along with the V-shaped front give the collar a more slender feel and has a look that is less like a collar and more like a piece of women's jewelry.
If you like it, let me know. I am very happy to measure you for one.
I'll post more leather designs soon. If there's anything you'd like to see, let me know and maybe we can work on it.
10 May 2011
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3 May 2011
What is the meaning of SM?
S=Sadism the giving of pain.
M=Masochism the taking of pain.
So who is into SM?
Turns out that every time you scratch an itch, it's a mild form of damage to the nerve cells under your skin. The same kind of damage that happens when you take pain.
So that means that every person who scratches, is giving pain (S) and taking pain (M) at the same time!
The whole world is full of SM'ers, and they don't even know it!