Intimacy is based on shared vulnerability...nothing deepens intimacy like the experiences that we share when we feel flayed, with our skins off, scared and vulnerable, and our partner is there with us, willing to share in the scary stuff
所謂的親密感是建立在脆弱之上的。再沒有比分享赤裸更真切的親密感了。當我們退掉了包裹自己的外皮，感覺害怕且受傷，而有人在這樣的時刻願意守候在那兒，與我們分享那些醜陋嚇人的事物。
-- Dossie Easton & Catherine A. Liszt
sharing and caring, and feel comfortable at the same time, sound perfect, it's challenging though
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